Whenever a thread gains a little bit of traction, as sure as eggs is eggs, someone will post about how they have absolutely no interest in the subject and probably never will. I have done this myself, I am sure of it.
What propels us to do this? I wonder if it’s because we read a bunch of posts on a thread about (say) Lena Zavaroni and some psychological peer pressure kicks in to have an opinion, any opinion.
It’s as if you are in a pub and everyone in your group is having a long, detailed and spirited yatter about the genius of the deceased M!HMEAMHM. You try to change the subject but it’s Lena this and Lena that. Noticing your lack of engagement, then they fall silent and look at you and ask directly what YOU think. If you’re anything like me, you will say to them “Honestly, I literally have ZERO interest in her or her music! I never have and I probably never will!”.
That is fair enough.
But when you overhear a group conversation that doesn’t interest you – would you make a point of joining the group just to tell them that you’re » Continue Reading.