I’ve had moments where I think Say Hello, Wave Goodbye by Soft Cell is the greatest song ever recorded. Drunk and solipsistic moments, but moments nonetheless.
As a folk singer, I pride myself in having a song for every occasion. Many would give you The Parting Glass, but this is my farewell song.
“And there’s naught that I can bid yer/
But that peace and love gan with yer/
Never mind whatever call the fates/
Away from Hexhamshire”
That’s a lovely song. Thanks for sharing – I’m off to learn more about RU&TW. I’ve heard bits and pieces of The Unthanks, but never quite warmed to them (except for The Magpie, used so effectively in the peerless Detectorists). I’ll see if Rachel and chums win me over.
Also, another vote for The Parting Glass, a song so good that I’d make it my party piece if (1) I could actually sing a note and (2) I went to parties.
I particularly like the version that rounds off the wonderful Waking Ned:
In seven minutes, Roy says everything about the twilight of life/career. That’s why I found Geoff Dwyer’s Last Days Of Roger Federer so disappointing and I normally love his writing.
Do you know, I think she went to watch James. They were top of a day festival bill in Warrington. I suspect she was more keen on the day out than seeing James
I used to like the “where are they now?” pieces in Q, especially when someone took up a mundane job somewhere, not out of schadenfreude but I just found it interesting. I think musicians keep their hand in more these days as they don’t need a record deal to release stuff and they can book and promote gigs themselves.
Sorry @Tiggerlion it was tongue firmly in cheek.
However there has been two Fairport tracks suggested so I’ll make it three this being the first one I thought of.
Which reminds me of a favourite story of an amateur dramatic group performing this, it came down to the youngest to sing her line who promptly threw up and rushed off the stage. But the show must go on the song continued until the second youngest slipped on the Salzburgian spew and landed on top of it. The curtain comes down.
Here’s just the thing. From the 1957 Technicolour film, Seven Hills of Rome, here’s Mario Lanza in the magnificent Piazza Navona, giving it some serious welly.
Wellisimo.
There’s a story behind this.
Mario is singing with a young street urchin, Luisa Di Meo. In typical Lanza fashion, the star had encountered the youngster while in Rome and insisted on her appearing in the film.
I’m not keen on Led Zep but I was quite taken with Ana Matronic’s answer to the question, which song is the best to have sex to? “Side one of Led Zep IV. Preferably in the back of a van.”
I was going to put that filmed version on above but it crashed. I think the Fairport film is condensed from a film with Matthews Southern Comfort and others though I can’t remember the film’s nam’e.
We used to watch the Julie Felix show, I think it was called Once More With Felix, in NZ in about 1969. I think that’s where I first heard Leonard Cohen. My Dad was apoplectic with lust for the lovely Julie…
Talk abut beIng in the rIght place at the right time.
She arrived in the United Kingdom in 1964, and became the first solo folk performer signed to a major British record label when she gained a recording contract with Decca Records, for whom she recorded three solo albums.[4] Her first major break was a headlining appearance at the Fairfield Halls in Croydon in 1965, and later that year her first solo show gave her the distinction of being the first folksinger to fill the Royal Albert Hall, and she was described by The Times as “Britain’s First Lady of Folk”.[4] Her first major break in British television was an appearance on the Eamonn Andrews TV show, which was so well-received that she was invited back to perform again the following week. Felix was also the first pop musician ever to perform at Westminster Abbey.
In 1966, on the way to the launch party for her debut album, Felix had a chance meeting with comedian David Frost in the elevator of her Chelsea apartment building. Frost – who had recently been chosen as the host of a new BBC topical satire series – accompanied Felix to the launch, and was so impressed by her performance that he lobbied the BBC to include her as one of the two resident musical performers on his new BBC television programme The Frost Report (the other being American musical satirist Tom Lehrer). Her appearances on the series brought her international recognition and made her a household name in the UK.[3]
Short and sweet (and lovely) – Jethro Tull’s self-explanatory Cheerio:
A song with beautiful lyrics about farewells, love, and the power of music – Runrig’s And We’ll Sing, here rounding off their 40th anniversary show to great effect:
That’s the chorus from this ancient Scottish ballad. The Merry Beggar. It’s about a King of Scotland who would roam the country disguised as a beggar and getting up to shenanigans with the lassies.
Talking of Donald Swann, here is his setting to music of a farewell poem by Tolkien.
The YT Notes are informative:
“Bilbo’s Last Song” is a poem by J.R.R.Tolkien that doesn’t appear in his “Lord of the Rings,” but if it had, it would have appeared in the final pages of the book, at the Grey Havens.
Donald Swann was the first composer to set Tolkien’s poems and songs to music with the professor’s express approval, as documented in the 1967 book and record “The Road Goes Ever On.” Shortly after Tolkien’s death, his publishing secretary shared this poem, given to her as a parting gift by Tolkien, with Swann, and he set it to music that very day.
I just knocked together this playlist from this thread.
What a treat.
Earlier in the thread, @thecheshirecat mentioned that there are certain songs, such as The Parting Glass, which are part of the ritual of bringing an evening to an end .
At the end of every ceilidh organised by the Stockholm Ceilidh, it goes without saying that they finish with everybody singing Auld Lang Syne together.
I suspect that many bands, like Runrig, have a song which always brings the evening to a close.
The same goes for club and discos.
It ain’t over till the fat lady sings…..
Grace Jones’s Vie en Rose always marked the end of the evening at my favourite disco on Corfu.
It’s coming up to the 25th anniversary of me leaving my last job, ecstatic, knowing that I’d finally landed in the right place. Here are the two songs that soundtracked that moment. https://youtu.be/Wo_ojVOG02s?si=NVFXBjCEMTPClIIe
In terms of parting songs, it crosses my mind that there are plenty of shanties that dwell on parting sorrows and a longing to return. I might add that very often the phrase ‘bound to leave you’ refers to an obligation as an indentured slave. We’re not in ‘woman, I got to ramble’ territory here.
And in Loch Lomond the ‘low road’ is said to be the way a dead soldier can return to the home country before a living one travelling by the ‘high road.’
Madison Cunningham – So Long Frank Lloyd Wright.
So long Artie!
Wow that is so beautiful, beautifully sung, recorded, great guitar. Love it
A bit obvious perhaps, but … Goodbyee!
Always a pleasure, never a chore
“I’ll find someone who’s not going cheap in the sales”
Probably completely inappropriate, but a fabulous number
Maybe after a few drinks towards the end of the evening.
Yes, I’m responsible me for the palylist.
Maybe add this number – for some elegant moves on the dancefloor
I’ve had moments where I think Say Hello, Wave Goodbye by Soft Cell is the greatest song ever recorded. Drunk and solipsistic moments, but moments nonetheless.
As a folk singer, I pride myself in having a song for every occasion. Many would give you The Parting Glass, but this is my farewell song.
“And there’s naught that I can bid yer/
But that peace and love gan with yer/
Never mind whatever call the fates/
Away from Hexhamshire”
Oh Lord, that gives me shivers.
That’s a lovely song. Thanks for sharing – I’m off to learn more about RU&TW. I’ve heard bits and pieces of The Unthanks, but never quite warmed to them (except for The Magpie, used so effectively in the peerless Detectorists). I’ll see if Rachel and chums win me over.
Also, another vote for The Parting Glass, a song so good that I’d make it my party piece if (1) I could actually sing a note and (2) I went to parties.
I particularly like the version that rounds off the wonderful Waking Ned:
Actually, my favourite version of Fareweel Regality is on Kathryn Tickell’s Northumberland Collection, sung by a dialect singer. Inspirational.
Supergrass – Time to Go
I’d forgotten that one. Lovely tune, and nice and brief. No wallowing
I know it’s a bit bleedin’ obvious, but still…
Aw shucks – haven’t heard that in years. I’d be ecstatic if Tigger played that for me…
Then there’s this…
Now I’m crying …
Right up my street, that, cheers.
In seven minutes, Roy says everything about the twilight of life/career. That’s why I found Geoff Dwyer’s Last Days Of Roger Federer so disappointing and I normally love his writing.
Do you know, I think she went to watch James. They were top of a day festival bill in Warrington. I suspect she was more keen on the day out than seeing James
I think the chances of someone seeing James live becoming a bit of a fan are high. They are extremely good live and have a cracking songbook.
Simply one of the best goodbye songs.
Again. Shivers.
Dance music! Hurrah!
This is probably my favourite Billy Bragg song of the past 20 years: “Goodbye, Goodbye”
Do musicians ever really retire? I guess that’s another thread
I used to like the “where are they now?” pieces in Q, especially when someone took up a mundane job somewhere, not out of schadenfreude but I just found it interesting. I think musicians keep their hand in more these days as they don’t need a record deal to release stuff and they can book and promote gigs themselves.
Or alternatively.
Nice try, but no
Sorry @Tiggerlion it was tongue firmly in cheek.
However there has been two Fairport tracks suggested so I’ll make it three this being the first one I thought of.
No worries. I enjoyed your track.
The Sundays – Goodbye
Or how about un petit bisou from Pet Clark?
That Sundays song is special. Too many syrupy strings on Petula
Petula leads to Francoise Hardy’s wonderful song, Comment te dire adieu.
Here are Pomplamoose with their fine version.
Excellent!
Of course there is this
That might be too much for everyone. How about Charlie Louvin’s version?
I honestly think that is my favourite version.
This is quite a well known and loved song here in Ireland. This was a version by RTE our national broadcaster recorded remotely during COVID.
That is beautiful
That is a real cracker @Bamber.
Once again you’ve opened our eyes to stuff going on in Eire that we would have probably have otherwise missed,
Jerry Fish sounds like a real local hero.
Nobody says farewell quite like Jacques Brel.
However The Great American Songbook is full of memorable goodbyes….
By the time i get to Memphis
Fire and rain
How about a modern Swedish farewell from Icona Pop?
You’re from the 70s but I’m a 90s bitch.
Perhaps not quite the message you had for your colleague ?
There is always this…
Which reminds me of a favourite story of an amateur dramatic group performing this, it came down to the youngest to sing her line who promptly threw up and rushed off the stage. But the show must go on the song continued until the second youngest slipped on the Salzburgian spew and landed on top of it. The curtain comes down.
Apologies for lowering the tone.
Hilarious. it’s the way you tell ’em, Hubert.
Pencil’s on fire tonight!
In that case, he’ll soon be charcoalsqueezer.
You want a good, old-fashioned farewell?
Here’s just the thing. From the 1957 Technicolour film, Seven Hills of Rome, here’s Mario Lanza in the magnificent Piazza Navona, giving it some serious welly.
Wellisimo.
There’s a story behind this.
Mario is singing with a young street urchin, Luisa Di Meo. In typical Lanza fashion, the star had encountered the youngster while in Rome and insisted on her appearing in the film.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Seven_Hills_of_Rome_(film)
The song was written in 1955 and first appeared in the film. It became standard.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Arrivederci_Roma
This is how we do it in New Zealand
Your Vera did it too
Cracking tune @Mousey.
I had to google and discovered it’s a song with quite a history ad many cover versions.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Now_Is_the_Hour_(song)
I’m quietly impressed that nobody has posted Wayne County & The Electric Chairs.
Don’t!
I haven’t!
Swagger off to potter on.
I’m not keen on Led Zep but I was quite taken with Ana Matronic’s answer to the question, which song is the best to have sex to? “Side one of Led Zep IV. Preferably in the back of a van.”
Well there’s a whole new thread right there. Uriah Heap in a skip?
I like to consider myself as quite adventurous but I draw a very firm line at having it off with Uriah Heap in a skip.
Don’t knock it until you’ve tried it.
The Dickens character or the band?
I don’t have intimate relations with fictional victorian villians. I’m not a weirdo.
So you claim.
😉
Is that you Moriarty?
I’ve got my rolled-up newspaper ready.
Sweet sweet freedom…
A quick goodbye
and a folksy farewell
Still my favourite Phil Collins’ song:
Dot Allison / Goodbye (from Heart Shaped Scars)
Another from Fairport. Interesting little piece of film here too….
I was going to put that filmed version on above but it crashed. I think the Fairport film is condensed from a film with Matthews Southern Comfort and others though I can’t remember the film’s nam’e.
@NigelT it was called London Rocks I’ve sent you a link.
Joey Tempest and co liked to say farewell bombastically.. Can this be Elon Musk’s favourite tune?
Len had a more unbuttoned approach.
Nice work if you can get it.
That duet with Judy really is particularly lovely.
We used to watch the Julie Felix show, I think it was called Once More With Felix, in NZ in about 1969. I think that’s where I first heard Leonard Cohen. My Dad was apoplectic with lust for the lovely Julie…
I suspect that some of the ladies watching that TV show in NZ were apoplectic with lust for the handsome Len …..
I watched the documentary Marianne & Leonard: Words of Love last night. I had no idea he was so into drugs during those times. Mandrax and LSD mostly.
Julie Felix’s WIKI page is a remarkable read.
Talk abut beIng in the rIght place at the right time.
She arrived in the United Kingdom in 1964, and became the first solo folk performer signed to a major British record label when she gained a recording contract with Decca Records, for whom she recorded three solo albums.[4] Her first major break was a headlining appearance at the Fairfield Halls in Croydon in 1965, and later that year her first solo show gave her the distinction of being the first folksinger to fill the Royal Albert Hall, and she was described by The Times as “Britain’s First Lady of Folk”.[4] Her first major break in British television was an appearance on the Eamonn Andrews TV show, which was so well-received that she was invited back to perform again the following week. Felix was also the first pop musician ever to perform at Westminster Abbey.
In 1966, on the way to the launch party for her debut album, Felix had a chance meeting with comedian David Frost in the elevator of her Chelsea apartment building. Frost – who had recently been chosen as the host of a new BBC topical satire series – accompanied Felix to the launch, and was so impressed by her performance that he lobbied the BBC to include her as one of the two resident musical performers on his new BBC television programme The Frost Report (the other being American musical satirist Tom Lehrer). Her appearances on the series brought her international recognition and made her a household name in the UK.[3]
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Julie_Felix
This works
Indeed it does!
Short and sweet (and lovely) – Jethro Tull’s self-explanatory Cheerio:
A song with beautiful lyrics about farewells, love, and the power of music – Runrig’s And We’ll Sing, here rounding off their 40th anniversary show to great effect:
I haven’t heard that Runrig before. Surprisingly good (to me).
One from RT
Maybe this is appropriate:
Excellent! I think I’ll use that one. That Nick Lowe can write a song.
Supertramp?
Title might not fit, but lyrically should work
Green Day – Good Riddance
So we’ll go no more a roving…
That’s the chorus from this ancient Scottish ballad. The Merry Beggar. It’s about a King of Scotland who would roam the country disguised as a beggar and getting up to shenanigans with the lassies.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Jolly_Beggar
Here is Planxty’s version.
Because you post a few clips in each post, I struggle to view your suggestions, KFD. Sorry.
🤷
Ooops. Sorry about that, Tigger.
I just chopped mý latest comment up into three separate chunks.
Hope that helps. This is turning into a wonderfully varied thread with all manner of gems.
The chorus of the Merry Beggar provided Lord Byron with inspiration for a poem in 1817.
So we’ll go no more a roving
So late into the night,
Though the heart be still as loving,
And the moon be still as bright.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/So,_we%27ll_go_no_more_a_roving
It has been set to music many times by, among others, Donald Swann, Joan Baez, Marianne Faithful and Leonard Cohen
Mmmmm. That was a surprise. Byron reinvented as smooth, bachelor pad, cocktail jazz. very fitting for a Romantic poet.
Lovely!
I did think of adding this earlier more Cohen but I suppose it doesn’t link to goodbyes but it’s time to close down.
Talking of Donald Swann, here is his setting to music of a farewell poem by Tolkien.
The YT Notes are informative:
“Bilbo’s Last Song” is a poem by J.R.R.Tolkien that doesn’t appear in his “Lord of the Rings,” but if it had, it would have appeared in the final pages of the book, at the Grey Havens.
Donald Swann was the first composer to set Tolkien’s poems and songs to music with the professor’s express approval, as documented in the 1967 book and record “The Road Goes Ever On.” Shortly after Tolkien’s death, his publishing secretary shared this poem, given to her as a parting gift by Tolkien, with Swann, and he set it to music that very day.
Is there room on the list for DONOVAN?
DONOVAN invented goodbyes, you know.
I just knocked together this playlist from this thread.
What a treat.
Earlier in the thread, @thecheshirecat mentioned that there are certain songs, such as The Parting Glass, which are part of the ritual of bringing an evening to an end .
At the end of every ceilidh organised by the Stockholm Ceilidh, it goes without saying that they finish with everybody singing Auld Lang Syne together.
I suspect that many bands, like Runrig, have a song which always brings the evening to a close.
The same goes for club and discos.
It ain’t over till the fat lady sings…..
Grace Jones’s Vie en Rose always marked the end of the evening at my favourite disco on Corfu.
La Vie En Rose is wonderful
Leonard Cohen was certainly a master of songs about farewells.
And Forces Favourite Dame Vera Lynn was big on goodbyes.
Here’s an unexpected cover version..
As a nation, the Italians really know how to say goodbye.
Here is the Volare Hitmaker, Domenico Modugno.
Ciao, ciao, bambina, un bacio ancora
Bye bye my darling
Give me just one more kiss.
The Cranberries Go Your Own Way sounds more of a decisive farewell than the original.
Hi Ho Silver, Away.
Your colleague needs a good song to ride off into the sunset to.
Another perfect song to end the event.
there’s no better song for the end of term that Alice Cooper’s School’s Out.
What a shame he didn’t write one about leaving a job. Work’s Out.
It’s coming up to the 25th anniversary of me leaving my last job, ecstatic, knowing that I’d finally landed in the right place. Here are the two songs that soundtracked that moment. https://youtu.be/Wo_ojVOG02s?si=NVFXBjCEMTPClIIe
That XTC track is a real winner.
It’s been mentioned above as a song, but I do love this version. And Thea generally, to be fair.
Then again this George Michael tune would be a great floorfiller.
This may be a little inappropriate…..
When the evening is coming to an end, the Fall may come in handy.
No party is complete without some Swedish dansband music.
Cheerio by Lasse Stefanz is a guaranteed floor filler.
This delicate, bitter-sweet bossa by Astrud Gilberto fits in rather well for a farewell party.
This track by Faron Young is perfect for your event.
I MISS YOU ALREADY AND YOU’RE NOT EVEN GONE.
And if you can get yourself a gold-lamé cowboy outfit like Faron’s, it’s going to be an evening to remember-
Obsessive? Moi?
Late last night I stumbled across this extraordinary list of goodbye songs.
https://www.dennydavis.net/poemfiles/lvmissust2.htm
Full of gems….
GOODBYE HIGH SCHOOL, HELLO VIETNAM
You could offer this – but leave off the bang on the ear…
Great choice @black-type.
The Waterboys add some craic to any party.
And Mike Scott can sing a sad song but somehow make it up-lifting.
How strange the change from major to minor….
I can’t believe we’ve been talking about goodbyes all week and not mentioned Ella…
gosh! Yes. Well remembered.
In terms of parting songs, it crosses my mind that there are plenty of shanties that dwell on parting sorrows and a longing to return. I might add that very often the phrase ‘bound to leave you’ refers to an obligation as an indentured slave. We’re not in ‘woman, I got to ramble’ territory here.
And in Loch Lomond the ‘low road’ is said to be the way a dead soldier can return to the home country before a living one travelling by the ‘high road.’